But
he was angry and refused to go in. His
father came out and entreated him, but he answered his father, “Look, these
many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never
gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came, who has
devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for
him!” And he said to him, “Son you are
always with me, and all that is mine is yours.
It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead,
and is alive; he was lost, and is found’ (Luke 15:28-32).
We’re entering the middle of the story and we have an older
brother whose angry. Let’s catch up, the
younger son tells his dad he wants his part of the inheritance. Basically, he’s wishing his father was dead,
so he could collect his money and live as he pleases. The father gives him his inheritance and the
son goes on his way. He wastes all the
money on wild living. After having nothing left, he comes to his senses
remembering his father, and realized he is in need, so he decides to go back
home. To his surprise the father is
watching and waiting for his return, welcomes him back, and announces a
homecoming celebration.
Now, the older brother comes on the scene and he’s
angry. He had stayed home all this time,
and was the obedient son. Everything the
father had was always available to him.
But when the younger brother comes home after spending his inheritance
recklessly, he couldn’t join in the celebration of his brother’s return.
The father pleads with the older brother to join them, but
he refuses and goes off angry, probably some resentment and jealously as
well. The bigger problem with the older
brother, although he lived at home with father, he never fully received the
love of the father, therefore he had no compassion when his younger brother
returned.
As a mom, this is heartbreaking, how do settle this when
you’re on both sides?
Father,
may we remember, You see us through eyes of unconditional love, no matter where
we are and what we have done.